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At age 21, Skye knew her long-term life goal was to open a youth drop-in centre in her Alberta home town, but she had no idea where to start. At age 20, Megan was unsure if she wanted to work with youth, let alone leave her home province of Quebec, but she knew her experience in ministry was drawing her toward something.
Yet once both women learned about Youth Unlimited’s Lifeteams School of Youth Outreach, they knew they’d found the next step on their journey. They moved provinces and jumped into the learning, challenge and growth that Lifeteams offers. Their life trajectories have forever been changed.
Lifeteams is an eight-month YU program where young adults come from across Canada to receive exemplary training in youth outreach within an intentional community context in Abbotsford. Students complete 30 college-level credits in youth work and biblical studies and receive youth work placements alongside veteran youth workers where they learn to step into the world of vulnerable teens with compassionate courage.
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Skye and Megan were paired in East Vancouver for their work placement with Lifeteams alumna, Amanda Ratzlaff. This is a challenging environment, even for seasoned youth workers. “Many of the youth we support are growing up in the Downtown East” Amanda says. “They often live with adults who aren’t their biological parents. There are few healthy connections with each other and outside supports, and it almost feels like everyone has trauma. Navigating your own trauma, and attempting to help your friends facing the same difficulties, is really hard.”
Lifeteams is intentionally set up to provide the right
A proud graduation day for Lifeteams Class of ‘22
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Through Lifeteams, Skye and Megan built a life-long friendship
amount of support and challenge to optimize learning and growth. “Amanda cares for us really well,” says Skye, “helping us develop skills to plan meetings with youth, set boundaries, and take care of ourselves.” For Amanda, entrusting the youth in her program to Skye and Megan was natural. “They both have a deep relationship with Jesus, and trust Him to care for the youth more than they ever could,” she says.
Megan and Skye worked closely with a group of eight youth every Friday. The group engaged in various activities — from skating to escape rooms, and excursions to a pottery café — providing many contexts for conversation. In learning about each of the youth’s difficult and often overwhelming situations, Megan and Skye became their allies. “One of the first things I learned was the need to build positive relationships, where you can love them and make them feel like they’re seen and known,” says Megan. Skye echoes this sentiment, noting that “the best thing I can do is to listen and really hear their stories.”
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For Amanda, Skye and Megan’s experiences remind her of her own. A 2014 Lifeteams graduate, Amanda received support both inside and outside of the classroom, that enabled her to find her calling as a youth worker. “Lifeteams holistically cares and equips their students to not just be good youth workers, but good human beings,” she says. “I had small dreams of working with youth, but didn’t know what that would look like. Lifeteams was my test, and I came out knowing that it was for me.”
As Amanda became increasingly emboldened in youth outreach, moving beyond the walls of the Lifeteams house, the mentorship continued. “You never stop being invested in — I’m still being invested in by teachers and mentors. It’s a way of life,” she says. Even today, Amanda meets with an older Lifeteams grad regularly for mentorship and support.
For both Megan and Skye, who just graduated this May, one thing is certain: they know they want to work with youth. Megan begins at the University of Victoria this fall, with plans to major in Child and Youth Care. “This is what I want to do,” she says, “and seeing people do it well makes it even more inspiring.” Skye is returning to her hometown of Three Hills, Alberta, where she plans to apply all she’s learned. “I want to be the Amanda of Three Hills,” she says. To Amanda, these decisions could not be more natural. “Megan and Skye get it. They get what youth work is about. They just do,” she says. “They’re amazing people, who are going to do amazing things. That’s what Lifeteams is all about.”
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